Planning the Perfect Moroccan Party

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Creating a Moroccan Feast at Home

Understanding the Ceremonial Meal

In order to host a traditional Moroccan feast it is important to understand the Moroccan culture. Only by understanding the culture can you truly create a flavorful atmosphere at home and a more authentic experience for your guests.

Moroccan feasts are ceremonious events that can include up to 50 courses! In traditional Moroccan homes, the master of the house does not eat with his guests, opting instead, to supervise the ceremonious meal. As the meal begins, each guest shakes hands with the person to their right, though never starting with the mistress of the house. Following the ceremonial handshake, each guest seats themselves on cushions that have been placed directly on the floor.

Once his guests have been seated, the master of the home, carrying a towel over his left arm and a pitcher of scented water in his right, proceeds around the table, sprinkling a few drops of water over each guest’s right hand. Because Moroccan’s eat meals with their fingers, the ceremonial cleansing is an integral part of each feast. Guests then use the master’s towel to wipe the scented water from their hands. Even couscous, a traditional middle-eastern dish which is rice-like in consistency, is eaten with the fingers by pressing it into small bite-sized balls. Guests dip their fingers into ramekins of water to freshen them between courses.

The meal begins as the master of the house eats the first morsel and offers the ritual blessing, which is called Bismallah. Literally translated, Bismallah means, “Praise be to God!”

Each guest is expected to eat a bit of everything with the ultimate goal of achieving chban, or complete satisfaction.

Traditional Entertainment

Incorporating traditional middle-eastern entertainment into your event will give it that extra panache that will keep your guests talking for months or years afterward! Three examples are the smoking of the hookah, belly-dancing and henna tattooing.

The Hookah

The Hookah, or shisha, as it is known in Arabic, is a single or multistemmed, often glass-bottomed water pipe which operates by water filtration and indirect heat. It is often used for smoking herbal fruits or tobacco. It has been said that Arabs design the finest shishas and most preferred flavored tobaccos in the world. Smoking is a social event which is done using pipes that each have one to four hoses depending upon the number of persons smoking. When a smoker is ready to pass the pipe, he either places it back on the table or hands it to the next person, folding it back on itself so that the mouthpiece does not point directly at the person. In some circles, it is traditional for the recipient to tap or slap the previous smoker on the back of the hand while taking the pipe, as a sign of respect and friendship.

Belly Dancing

Belly dancing is a western term for a traditional Arab dance genre known as raqs sharqi, which literally means, oriental dance. It is rooted in ancient Babylon in southern Iraq where women perfected the art of the dance, while men perfected the art of drumming in order to provide accompaniment. Traditionally, men hosted large feasts and watched women perform. Belly dancing was banned with the advent of Islam, with the exception of women who performed for their husbands. Despite the ban, the dance remained popular among rich Arab men who gathered poor women and forced them to perform. In northern Africa, where Morocco is located, Arab men purchased slaves from around the globe and enlisted Arab women to teach the slaves how to belly dance.

Henna Tattoos

Henna has been used in the eastern Mediterranean since the late Bronze Age to adorn young women’s bodies during social and holiday celebrations. It was often used to decorate the bodies of young brides as they prepared to meet their new husbands. These early traditions, in which fertile young women adorned themselves with henna, may have been the origin of the Night of Henna. Brides, and in many cultures grooms as well, celebrate their marriages by applying elaborate henna patterns on their hands and feet. This tradition is found among Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Christians and Zoroastrians, among others. When the Prophet Mohammed used henna and mehndi, its place in history was secured and its popularity soared throughout the Muslim world. In regions where henna was readily available, it was used to celebrate the saints. Animals such as prized horses, donkeys and salukis had their hooves, paws and tails hennaed by owners. Henna is usually a ritualistic part of celebrations of birth, battle victories, circumcisions and weddings. Henna has become synonymous with joy and celebration throughout the world, particularly the Muslim world, provided that it is readily available.

Feasting on a Smaller Budget

You don’t need to rent a big tent and hire entertainers if those features are not conducive to your budget. You can throw a beautiful dinner party for a smaller group for far less expense. Though the Moroccan feast typically features a 50 course meal, your party can be just as successful and every bit as delicious with far fewer courses. First, consider that Moroccans eat meals differently than we do. Their “courses” are served separately and many account for what we might otherwise consider to be “side-dishes.” While we may serve vegetables, starches and meats on the same plate at the same time, a Moroccan will serve each of these items on its own and each is considered to be its own course.

Now that you understand how Moroccans serve their meals, you can determine how many courses to serve. Though less authentic, your Moroccan feast will be quite enjoyable if you blend cultures and decide to serve Moroccan foods in a more Americanized style, that is, using silverware and serving several courses simultaneously.

When planning your menu, you may want to consider dishes that are diverse in texture, color and taste in order to offer guests a more authentic taste of Morocco. Fresh breads, salads and fruit platters are popular in Moroccan culture and these items are easy to prepare and even purchase from the market. I find that preparing couscous, roasted chicken and a crockpot of Moroccan chicken in addition to these other items provides a pleasing, tempting array of dishes. Because much of this food can be prepared in advance, you’ll have more time to concentrate on creating a festive atmosphere on the day of your party.

Creating the Ambience

Consider hosting your gathering in the living room instead of in your kitchen. Doing so will allow your guests to be inundated with the marvelous aromas from the feast without having to look at the mess in your kitchen! Your living room will also provide a comfortable and more authentic setting. Remember that Moroccan tradition includes sitting on the floor, perched upon or reclined into decorative throw pillows and eating with one’s fingers from a low table in the middle of the gathering. In order to protect your carpet, consider using an inexpensive tablecloth under your table, with another one draped over the table. Cloths of contrasting colors will add greater flair to the atmosphere. Don’t be afraid to use bold colors and patterns. A low table can be accomplished in many homes by simple unscrewing the legs of your dining table and placing the platform directly onto the floor or atop crates. You may already have several decorative throw pillows on your sofa. If you need more, but don’t want to purchase them, you might purchase inexpensive fabrics and sew your own pillows. If your guests are not comfortable sitting on the floor, consider seating them at a table, but line each chair with a decorative pillow. You may also drape or tie chiffon ribbons around the backs of your chairs to add a splash of color.

If an outdoor party is more your style, consider renting a small tent made of mosquito netting in which to host your gathering. If this isn’t in line with your budget, don’t despair. There are a variety of highly effective products on the market which can hold the pesky insects at bay for hours. In addition, citronella candles and tiki torches can add illumination and mosquito repellent to your party. You may consider using tiki torches to line your driveway or front porch to signify to guests, upon arrival, that something special is happening inside.

Lighting

Lighting is at least as important as any other aspect of the environment. You can set the mood in a variety of ways. First, consider using only candlelight. Consider using a variety of sizes and shapes to cast a warm glow over the room that will add to the romance and authenticity of your party. You may also consider draping chiffons over your lampshades and using dimmer watt bulbs to create a rich, elegant atmosphere. Hanging a string of white lights around the perimeter of the room will add a nice touch. You can also drape the string of lights over an existing curtain rod or through greenery which can be draped across your mantle piece. If your party is outdoors, try stringing the lights across a fence, along your gutters or tool shed.

Music

Music is one of the most important aspects of your event because it really helps to set the mood. Whether you are going for a more subdued or very festive atmosphere, there is music out there for your gathering. Now all you have to do is find it. Because music is so powerful, I must confess that many of the parties I have planned have been inspired after I first found the music! Some of the most enjoyable Moroccan music that I have discovered on i-Tunes includes such artists as Chalf Hassan; Rachid Taha; Sufi Brotherhood; Hakim; The Kamkars; Farid El Atrache; Aradia and DJ Zen Fatme Serhan; Ercan Saatchi; Kurd; Kayhan Kalhor & M.R. Shajarian; and Petrol Bomb Samosa. Because a gathering of this type is focused on the feast and conversation, the music should be enjoyable, but played at the proper decibel so as not to become a distraction.

If the feast and company are the main focus of your gathering, you’ve likely covered everything using the simple tips provided so far. If you’re interested in having entertainment you might consider on of the suggestions above such as smoking the hookah, having a henna tattoo artist or a belly dancer. Henna tattoos also come in self-application kits which guests might have fun applying on one another. Such kits can often be found in craft or hobby shops.

The Invitation

Let’s face it, the more creative the invitation, the more intrigued the guests will be. If your party promises to be the social event of the season, your invitation should give your guests a taste of things to come.

Creating invitations that resemble Middle Eastern scrolls is relatively inexpensive yet offers an authentic and creatively cultural flair that will have your friends talking! For my invitations I used wood dowels (approx. 1/2 inc. in diameter) and wooden dowel caps both of which I purchased at a local craft store. I chose round dowel caps, but you may choose more decorative finial type caps if you prefer. Next, you’ll need metallic gold (not yellow gold) wood paint, wood glue, Elmer’s Glue; red construction paper; plain white printer paper and gold ribbon. To assemble your invitations, follow these simple instructions:

Afix dowel caps to ends of each dowel rod using wood glue and allow to dry.
Paint dowel and caps with metallic gold paint. Allow to dry.
Print invitations in color (I used red and gold printer ink, and incorporated Arabic translation for a more authentic flair.
Cut flowing border onto printed invitations or burn edges so that printed invitation is about an inch from edges of red construction paper on all sides.
Glue printed invitation onto red construction paper using Elmer’s glue stick.
Drizzle a thin line of wood glue approximately 1/2 inch from top edge of construction paper and attach to painted wooden dowel. Allow to dry. You will have to hold it in place while it dries, but it does dry relatively quickly.
Wind invitation around dowel and tie with gold ribbon.

Invitations are best delivered by hand because if sent by mail they will require small boxes instead of envelopes, which adds to the expense. If you want to have a lot of fun with this, deliver invitations wearing a costume that hints at the party’s theme. This might include a pair of Middle Eastern slippers, bangles, a Fez, colorful scarves, etc.

Bigger Budget, Bigger Feast

In the event that you are prepared to spend the money, you can significantly increase the level of extravagance of your gathering.

Renting a large tent (at least 20’ x 30’) will offer your guests a secure setting regardless of weather conditions. It will cost extra, but renting the walls for the tent is completely worth it. Even in calm weather, having the tent walls up creates a more intimate feeling to a larger gathering. Because the evening of my Moroccan feast was beautiful, I chose to leave one wall off of my tent so that the open side faced into my garden which was alive with color at the time. This also provided fresh ventilation, which was appreciated during belly dancing lessons! Purchasing a long white fabric which can be used as a white carpet upon which guests enter, creates a more festive, upscale aspect to the atmosphere. Sprinkle rose petals upon the carpet and ask that guests remove their shoes before treading upon it. Line the sides of the carpet with Tiki torches until the point where the carpet reaches the entrance to the tent. Find an out of the way place in which to hide your sound system. This will be used to play the Moroccan music that you’ve chosen for your evening, that is, unless you’ve decided to hire Moroccan musicians to entertain your guests. In this case, assure that the tent you’ve rented is large enough to accommodate all guests in addition to the entertainment.

The inside of the tent is where your guests will be spending the majority of their evening, so the more festive you can make it, the more impressed everyone will be. You have the ability to literally transport your guests to an entirely different culture and create an experience that will have them talking for years!!

Attention to detail is the event planner’s greatest gift. By following these few simple suggestions, you can take your party to another level.

String white lights around the perimeter of your tent to help set the mood.
Color coordinate your evening. I chose a gold and red color scheme to create a rich, lush setting and to match the invitations.
Use many candles to help create the mood. I chose candles in a variety of sizes and colors and assured that each table had at least 3 candles. If burning incense, assure that your candles are unscented so that the aromas do not conflict.
Wrapping strands of beads around the candles adds a certain exotic flair.
Draping bright chiffon fabrics around the perimeter of the tent adds a lovely splash of color.
Use colorful, patterned decorative throw pillows for seating (either on the ground or on the chairs), preferably with beaded fringe for an added flair.
Place large potted palms or other greenery in the corners of the tent to help bring more of the outside in.
If drinking wine, use real wine glasses and adorn each with beaded wine glass charms.
If you have chosen to have guests eat with their hands, in authentic Moroccan fashion,assure that each place setting has a ramekin of water in which to dip their fingers between courses and assure that your guests know what the protocol is so that you don’t have dozens of guests asking where the silverware is.
Place colorful floral centerpieces on each table.
Scatter rose petals on each table.
Burn incense, but assure that it does not conflict with the candles. Sandalwood and lavender are traditional and pleasing aromas.
Assure that you have plenty of serving platters and bowls so that each table can have a sampling of each course without having to pass platters between tables. Also assure when decorating your tables that you leave enough room for the platters.
Hookahs, pottery, poofs, tapestries, and other authentic accoutrements can be found at local import stores such as Pier I or Cost Plus World Market or online, and can add an unparalleled ambience to your party. They come at a price, however, so be prepared to spend on these items and consider what you might be able to use them for once the party has ended.
Consider hiring entertainment such as Moroccan musicians, henna tattoo artists, belly dancers (for performance and lessons), snake charmers, palm readers, fortune-tellers, etc.

Incorporating Entertainment

lanning your event will include not only deciding what entertainment and other features to include, but also, at what intervals to offer these features. A great hostess will do her best to assure that there is little time available for guests to become bored or unfocused. She knows that spacing out the evening’s entertainment is critical to the success of her event. In addition, timing of the various aspects of the event also helps to create a natural end to the remarkable evening. For a successful flow, your evening might be structured something like this:

6:00 -6:15pm Arrival and cocktails
6:15 – 8:00pm Feast and music
8:00 – 8:15pm Belly Dancing Performance
8:15 – 8:45pm Belly Dancing Lessons
8:45 – 9:00pm Guests offered mint tea, coffee while tables are cleared
Music resumes and continues until 11:00pm
9:00 – 11:00pm Henna Tattoo Artist at work at one table
9:00 – 10:00pm Hookah area open (optional, outside of tent)
9:00 – 10:00pm Fortune tellers and palm readers at work at other tables
11:00pm Music ends signaling departure

Asking for Help

Few hostesses can pull off a party of this scale without some assistance. The smaller dinner party is much easier to arrange, but a large, outdoor event with multiple decorations, hired entertainment, music and a feast with multiple courses is another matter altogether. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. I have planned and executed many parties on a grand scale, none of which I was able to pull off without the help of my family and friends. Many of the volunteers may also be invited guests, and the drawback to enlisting their help, is that they will miss out on the ability to be awestruck by the extravagance and authenticity of your event upon arrival. On the other hand, cooking and decorating together can be great fun, and it is possible that your volunteers will have great ideas that you’ve not thought of for how to design the interior of your tent, or serve your food, etc. It is not easy to get around this little snag when enlisting help from persons who are also invited guests. After all, asking persons for help to prepare for such an event and then not inviting them to the event would be a great breach of etiquette.

Once you have considered your To Do list, you will have a better idea of where you may benefit from help. From there, you can secure the appropriate number of volunteers. You will find that most of the help you need will come on the day of the event. If volunteers are going to be doing much of the cooking, you may provide them with the ingredients and ask them to prepare the dishes in their own kitchens. The advantage here is that when they arrive for your party, it will be the first time that they are seeing how you’ve created your environment, thus preserving the “awe” factor for these volunteers.

I highly recommend using printed instructions for your volunteers that you can prepare in advance. The advantage is that you can complete the tasks that you want or need to do yourself, with few interruptions from others if your directions are clear and concise. This will be a great time saver and will be much appreciated by your volunteers. If recipes, ingredients, tools, or other items will be needed by your volunteers in order to carry out their assignments, assure that you have these items compiled in advance so that they don’t have to ask you for them. This will save much time on the day of the event. Keep in mind that volunteers will need time to shower and get ready for the party, so keep assignments manageable and allow each volunteer at least two hours between the end of their tasks and the start of the party.

This scale of help is primarily needed if you are planning on doing all of the cooking yourself. I personally find that though it is far more work, the sense of satisfaction I derive from preparing my own feasts is worth the effort. For others, especially those that might prefer not to use invited guests as volunteers, consider using a local caterer for meal preparation and service. This will ensure that you have ample time to set up the decorations and create the ambience, and that you can be seated and enjoy the feast with your guests, as opposed to serving them. Most caterers will be able to suggest just the right items for your feast if you give them a thorough overview of the theme of the party and the type of experience you are trying to create.

When arranging for the delivery of your tent, tables and chairs, make every attempt to get all items from the same rental company so that they are delivered together. This will enable you to proceed with decorating at your desired pace. Have mapped out precisely where you want the tent constructed, and assure that you’ve measured the space in advance so that there are no unfortunate surprises in store (i.e. tent is too large for the designated space). Consult your local Digger’s Hotline to assure that there are no dangerous cables buried in areas in which you will be driving tent stakes. Also assure that you pay the extra fee for set up and tear down instead of trying to do this yourself. It will save huge amounts of time and is completely worth the money. A professional can erect a 20’ x 30’ tent in about 20 to 30 minutes. It would take you hours and would likely be an unmanageable job.

To Do List

One Month in Advance (or more)

Order tent, tables and chairs and apply down-payment
Hire Entertainment, sign contracts and applicable down-payments
Shop for materials and begin making decorative throw pillows
Buy supplies for and begin making invitations
Begin shopping for Moroccan outfit
Find volunteers to help cook and decorate (or hire someone to do it)

Two to Four Weeks in Advance

Send out invitations

Two Weeks in Advance

Shop for supplies including:
Paper Products Candles
Tiki torches and oil Music
Decorative throw pillows (if not making them)
Verify that white lights are working. If not, purchase new lights.

One Week in Advance

Verify tent, table and chair delivery details
Verify entertainment
Finalize menu and plan for preparation (i.e. What can you make in advance? Do you have any ingredients already on hand? What order will you prepare items in? etc.)

One Day in Advance

Grocery shopping
Begin preparing menu items in advance where possible
Purchase rose petals (or get them from your own garden)
Pick up floral bouquets
Print lists of instructions for all volunteers so they can work efficiently when they arrive

Day of Party

Supervise tent construction
Provide assignments to all volunteers
String white lights and brightly colored chiffons around tent perimeter
Set up Tiki torches and white carpet, decorate with rose petals
Set up and decorate tables (use hookah pipes, fresh flowers, rose petals, candles, tableware)
Place throw pillows on chairs
Turn on crockpots
Make remaining recipe items (you’ll need a lot of help with this)
Set up sound system
Don Moroccan apparel
Prepare water pitchers with cologne or rosewater
HAVE FUN!!!!

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